❤Thursday, May 15, 2008 ❤
just went to j.e library to return and to borrow a new set of books for myself and ariel...have been reading up recently on how to handle tantrums and bad behaviours....cuz my lil ariel is seriously getting out of hand....and too bad her mother here just cannot stand the sight of rudeness and misbehaviours.....
things ariel do that pisses me off:::
- she cannot wait for things she want...[impatient]
- she does not want to open her golden mouth for porridge..all she does is drink milk
- she loves throwing things for attention
- she cannot sit still at the dining table
- she throws cutleries and plates of the dinner table
- she runs around without wanting to let u hold
i can understand why other mummies are so stress and piss by such behaviours becuz there is ultimately nothing we can do to make them understand...they simply will not listen...neither o they understand even if we scream or yell or whack......wat are the other solutions possible...i am still finding a proper and suitable one for my girl....for beatings...screamings and time-outs does not work on her....she is too stubborn...its either u got the soft way or u dun even need to bother to get angry....
i left a month before my arrival of my youngest girl....not yet get alot of things ready....still thinking if i should go to expo for the mother's fair...but wondering if it is worth the distance...or maybe i should just get from nearby stores....for i am alone....nobody is free to take off..and i still have not pay up my hospital bills...already miss a few checkups cuz i cannot afford...dunno how also...arrrgh....
candy-val
9:07 PM