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❤Monday, November 29, 2010 ❤

happy 21st birthday baby sis....hope u enjoyed ur trip huh......did u buy stuffs for me?????lols...i love u


candy-val
10:54 AM

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right now in "confinement" mode....lucky father in law cooks for me everyday....mother in law is as usual nice nice nice....she is always worried cuz i dun really wanna eat rice and she can keep asking me eat rice for like the whole day...lols.....
  • baby chloe is doing well....just that she loves to be carried when she is awake....
  • easier than ariel and belle.....cuz she sleeps and eats and shit only...lols
  • brought her for her jaundice check on day 3 and 5.....she is doing fine...(but each time blood test i heart pain.....dearie volunteers to hold her....cuz he say his heart also pain...)
  • breastfeeding is successfull.....(engorgement in the first few days.)
  • she put on 400g in 4 days......jiayous....pumping her weight up
  • drinking like 60ml of milk...woohoo....

mummy came to brought me food the day before....and as usual she keeps picking on me.....telling me the place like super messy and stuffs....haix...very sick of u mum....u just have got nothing nice to say to me is it???tell me to be appreciative....who the hell tell u i am not???what stuffs have u been hearing again....or is it u just simply finding things to say me.....if u trying to make me feel down...u have succeeded....i am not happy to hear u say these and u make me cry....thanks......if u trying to see my marriage fail...i will prove u wrong and i am super and will be xinfu de.....

belle have been trying to get use to mei mei...and i am worried so gotta 24hrs eyes stick on her...she tends to wanna feed mei mei her food and stuffs....=)btw belle is fat fat...extreme.....

princess ariel is still over at ting's place...gotta bring her back these few days....impose on ting for like weeks le....paiseh de.....ting have been feeding her super well that she gained lots of pounds....lolss....wait for me ting...i bring u go eat jap food ya...lols.....tempted.....

going for chloe's jaundice check later again..hope all is well.......i hope she gained weight....dearie wants a michellin

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candy-val
10:42 AM

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weeee......finally baby chloe is out on the 20th november 2010....too lazy and busy to update blog hence for the late announcement.....
  • born on 20th november 2010
  • time of birth:0436hrs
  • weight:3110grams=3.11kg
  • most people says she looks like daddy beng...so we shall see.....=)

a simple intro on my labour.............

19th nov at 2am....was at wang ba when i felt super uncomfortable and cramp.....contractions were regular at every ten mins....but becuz i have been having contractions for almost the whole week....i simply fear another false alarm....so i waited and waited......went home and still had the pain....and it was increasing.....when to sleep and forgot all bout it.....

early in the morning at around 10am....i woke up and went to the toilet...realising there is this brownish discharge....(it's called a "show").....called up the nurse at sgh to check if its ok cuz i never experience it before....then she tell me to come in by evening time....cuz most likely is labour signs le....baby is pressing and pushing downwards thats why got blood....

so as usual...i told dearie bout it....bathe and went to abc market to have chicken rice....cuz i know i go in hospital they wont let me eat de.....no eat where got energy....right??bearing with the pain cuz walking very painful.....thereafter....dear send me to sgh......and after ctg scan...true enough i gotta be admitted.....

went over to wang ba nearby to use com awhile cuz i gotta wait for availlable ward....no space....people saying i super madness cuz in labour still use com...lols...u peeps dunno...like that can distract me from the pain ma.....lols lols lols.....aniwaex...after getting a ward i went back the hospital....bathe and slept....dunno why...super sleepy...it was only like 9pm plus.....and moreover i was alone at the ward so sleep to past time.....

called dearie at 12plus and tell him i was in super pain and i gotta be send to labour ward for laughing gas(ethonox)....pain relief....he rushed home to get my belongings and came down straight.....nobody believe that i would dilate fast and the missy keep telling me i tml morning then give birth....bullshit......dear reached and i was already goggy and giddy with the gas....i blur blur de...only know he watch wrestling at my bedside...lols.....pain increased....check with the nurse and she say i dilated 8cm le....woohoo...coming le.....

at four plus i broke my water bag on my own....doctor too late le...midwife delivered for me...cuz i keep telling them i cannot wait...gotta push.....push 3 times again and pop comes chloe.....i cannot open my eyes all i can is hear dear keep saying the head is there le....lols....i just love this man la...he super curious...and he can tell me not so scary...not so much blood as expected...lols

finally baby chloe is out and i am super tired thats all i can say....then the mid wife help me with the placenta thingy and all is done...oh....i did not have to stitch *winks....heng ar......while resting....dearie keep looking at baby and he carried a newborn for the first time...u see his excited face u just wanna hug him...then we heard the next room lady keep screaming....dear say lucky i never scream like that...lols.....

thats all for the labour story...thank god for my smooth delivery

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candy-val
10:14 AM

❤Friday, November 12, 2010 ❤

princess ariel is taken care by ting today....she have nt been going out for a long time and i am utterly guilty bout it.....but i just seek her understanding....her willfulness and stubborn attitude must have been caused by me not giving her much attention....haix,.....anyway...hope she enjoy these few days.

i have certain unclear things that i really wanna rant about....i just feel like talking bout it but no one to talk to regarding these issues so i am just gonna pen it down here...

firstly..i have to make clear that my hubby bryan is superb nice to me and the kids...however... there are times when i just dun understand things....he will never see me or the kids go hungry thats for sure...but i just have this feeling that somehow nowadays he just dun like me following him round....maybe cuz when i come out we will have to bring belle along and he will feel restricted in ways..he never say but i just feel it...u know...woman's six senses.....yes its a joy to bring belle out but like when she falls asleeep we cannot even go and have a meal....i mean a proper one....and i admit everytime i am never full cuz i have to feed her and look after her and more....
i really dunno how to tell dear that i am sorry but i am not trying to restrict him in anyway....

i am gonna be in labour anytime le...and i still have sooooo much to worry about.....i am kinda lost in a way cuz i feel like i am the only one worrying things....dear is always the happy go lucky kind of guy....so he will wait till a problem really crops up then he come and worry...but i am the kind who will worry before hand.....haix....many will tell me nt to be stress...to relax and all... but there are things that only i know i have to worry for....

giving dear his bday present of baby chloe....this 15th nov i have a checkup and most likely i will tell the doc to burst my water bag.....unless it happens naturally before the 15th....lols....

thats all for now...i am super sleepy le.....

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candy-val
12:54 AM

❤Saturday, November 06, 2010 ❤

went for a seminar at conrad hotel today.....its for selected mothers by friso.....they had a sharing session and high-tea....friendly and nice people there....food was yummylicious......learned alot there...its a very supportive group......=)wish to attend more of such session......

princess ariel have been staying home for some time...feeling guilty bout that but hope she understands....i will definitely make up for that after i give birth....*guilt-stricken...though she is notti these few times....again..touching thiings around the house....doing funny stuffs...dear thinks she is just seeking our attention due to this coming baby......i hope so!!!!!but once again...she is dearly independant and sweet......i love u big girl

have been really lazy these few days...repacking my hospital bag....washed up the baby stuffs....getting all prepared for chloe.....tummy have been seriously tight now and then...guess i lost track...i cannot differentiate labour pains now....oh dear.........

i am thinking of cooking my own confinement food...got lots of recipes in hand le....cuz catering is simply ex....hope dearie will help me out ya???

dear is celebrating his birthday early next week cuz he scared i will due anytime...hope he enjoys himself ya????sad i cannot accompany him but i will make up for it....=)

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candy-val
10:28 PM